Archive for the Category ◊ Acts of Kindness ◊

18 Feb 2010 The World Is Kinder Than Headlines Will Lead You To Believe

Maplewood Farm, North Vancouver
Maplewood Farm, North Vancouver

I had high hopes for processing a lot more photos and writing out a few stories, but on Day 7 of the Olympics I got completely sucked into CTV’s live streaming coverage on the internet to watch the mens hockey game against Switzerland… then didn’t resurface until after the mens figure skating was finished. There goes Thursday night!

Last Monday afternoon while in Atlanta I ducked into a coffee shop called Danneman’s to warm up after shooting around the neighbourhood where Martin Luther King, Jr. grew up (Old 4th Ward). I sat down with a hot drink and pulled everything out of my bag to rearrange it for the rest of the walk home. Little did I know that my iPod Touch had fallen to the floor, something I would’ve noticed if I reached for it, but I make a point of putting it away for walking at night. I keep the iPod Touch housed in a rubber casing, which muffled the sound of the device hitting the ground. I was oblivious.

About an hour later, I was at the house downloading my thousand photos or so from a big day of shooting when an email arrived in my inbox with a ping!

I found your IPOD touch!

At first I was totally bewildered. Isn’t my iPod Touch in my bag?? Not according to the email:

Hey!
My name is Ryan.
I found your ipod touch at danneman’s coffee shop about 20 min ago.
call me… I’m downtown editing video right now at Georgia State University (I’m a student!)

[phone number]

-Yay!!!

PS I tried to call but you had a canadian # and my phone wouldn’t allow me to :(

I borrowed Halef’s phone to call Ryan, and thanked him profusely, adding that I was leaving the following day so I would meet him wherever he happened to be. I was fully prepared to take transit to the university, but then he said it would be easier for him to bike to me. Then I suggested the closest Marta station, and he suggested to meet back at the coffee shop. Then Michael offered to drive me to the coffee shop to save me a trek in the cold and dark. It was one act of kindness after another.

Thanks to the Atlantans, all of whom were complete strangers before I arrived, I was reunited with my iPod Touch which has travelled with me to Morocco, Spain, England, Norway, Germany, Austria, Italy, Slovakia, around Canada and the USA… I shouldn’t get attached to an ageing piece of hardware, but it’s served me well since 2007 and I use it every single day. (Incidentally, it was also a gift from a friend — another act of kindness.)

I have other stories from Atlanta, too, conversations I had with random people on the street, people curious about my photographic interest in their city, smiling folk behind cash registers and happy bus drivers alike. I was struck by such widespread politeness and warmth from the people, I had to write about it.

When the US Homeland Security officer asked me at Pearson Airport last Friday the purpose of my visit to Atlanta, he burst out laughing when I exclaimed “FUN!” without hesitation. (Anytime I can make a US border official laugh is a momentous occasion, indeed. Especially when the security queues are as long as they are now, and everyone’s patience has worn thin.) He seemed genuinely surprised that I would fly to a city in the south where I knew no-one, on the basis that it was a points flight with no connections, and because it was Black History Month.

“It was a sign,” he said casually and without a trace of sarcasm or disbelief, ignoring the growing crowd of people behind me waiting for their turn.

I was enthused by his rather unofficial-sounding answer. “It really was!” Then he stamped my passport and sent me on my way.

Video for today: one of the more famous bands from Georgia — REM — are from Athens, and this is their 1991 classic “Shiny Happy People”

{ continue reading… }

21 Dec 2009 Sweets Get Sweeter The Further They Travel

sweets from Germany

Marzipan and other goodies arrived from Germany today! Yay!

sweets from Germany

And for the hardcore chocoholic: Smarties inside chocolate.

sweets from Germany

The Santa didn’t quite make it intact, but no Smarties got away…

caffeine molecule

And from Vancouver, a very geeky — and thus fitting — item which will get a lot of use at the House of Fielding, where cats knock over mugs which is hazardous to expensive electronics.

Music for today: another oldie but goodie, Crowded House’s “Chocolate Cake”

{ continue reading… }

01 Oct 2009 ThankYou, Natalia!
 |  Category: Acts of Kindness, Food + Drink, Friends  | One Comment

GEF_6974_edit

Thursday, October 1 arrived and I wasn’t looking forward to it, except that Natalia offered to make me dinner while I went over some details about the wedding this Saturday that she’ll assist with. I needed something to look forward to on Thursday, to take my mind off the date.

The SMS this afternoon: “… and I baked a cake”

plantain cake

There’s something about home cooking that’s like therapy. Comfort food is exactly that.

(Look away, vegetarians!)

{ continue reading… }

14 Nov 2008 Christmas In November

a bit of Christmas from Germany

I was expecting my business cards to arrive today, but I got something better — a package from Germany!

Iris really outdid herself this year, it’s not even the middle of NOVEMBER. She mailed a fabulous care package: a big letter, scads o’ treats, photos, and a fantastic card made out of photos from their wedding. I’ve been WORKING, WORKING, and WORKING lately so this was a very welcome interruption to my day.

I wish I could show you what I’ve been working on, but I’ve got about five projects on the go at the same time and none of them are finished… I’m resurfacing over the weekend for Loy Krathong (Thai Thanksgiving) tomorrow and brunch on Sunday with some errands in-between, but otherwise it’ll be me in front of this computer pushing pixels around until I’m done!

a bit of Christmas from Germany

11 Aug 2008 An Albanian Saved My Hide Today
 |  Category: Acts of Kindness, House of Fielding  | 6 Comments

Remember this fiasco back in January when I accidentally locked myself out of the house? My former property manager (Serbian, I think?) saved my hide, along with my neighbour who drove me to fetch the key from the office in the middle of winter and lent me a coat so I wouldn’t freeze that night.

Fast forward to today: my doorbell rang and I ran down to fetch Martin, a houseguest from the UK, who’d TTC’ed and biked over from his previous host’s place on the other side of town. In my haste, the door closed behind me and I hadn’t put the keys in my pocket like I usually do. I had this sinking feeling…

… and I turned immediately around and tried the door knob. LOCKED!!!

I locked myself out of my suite AGAIN! (Yes, I’m going to get the blimmin’ key copied and stored somewhere in case this happens again.)

Martin was just going to drop his stuff off and head out again, except we were totally stranded. I had an idea: if maybe Martin was crazy brave enough to climb the fire escape and shimmy down the roof, he could push a screen in from one of the two open windows at the front of the house and climb in through the window. Except the roof is STEEP. I mean, really steep, and I’m on the top (third) floor — it’s a helluva long way down if he slipped. All of my other windows aren’t reachable without a fireman’s ladder. Martin made it up the fire escape, got on the roof, assessed the situation, and shook his head.

I didn’t want to entertain any possibility of a Brit splattered all over the driveway or having to explain this to his family or the authorities, so I went next door to the neighbours’ to see if they had any lock-picking implements. There I found only a tradesman who was working on their renovations, and I asked him if he could pick a lock. You know, because it’s completely normal to just walk randomly into people’s homes and make that sort of request.

I don’t even know what sort of tradesman he was — he may have been just a drywaller. But he came up to my door and had a go at the lock, without success. He even declared, after a number of tries, that picking it would be impossible. He eventually returned to work.

Martin had another look at the roof and I was losing confidence in that as a viable plan, so I asked the Albanian tradesman to borrow his phone to call a locksmith, but nobody had a phone book (remember those?) and I didn’t want to phone directory assistance because that would be an additional charge on his phone. At some point he had a bright idea, because he grabbed another set of tools, walked back up to my apartment door, and ——- (let’s just pretend I told you how he did it*) —— got the door open! Brilliant!

I tried to tell him that he saved me a lot of time and money, but he wouldn’t let me pay him, so I had to run over to the neighbour’s house and stick some cash in his pocket while he was protesting with tools in his hand and then run home again.

Martin said I was really lucky, and I sure am! So that’s the story of how an Albanian went out of his way to save my sorry hide and considered it all in a day’s work.

* Because I really don’t want anyone to get ideas about how to break into people’s homes… without appearing to have broken into people’s homes, you know?

19 Jul 2008 A Taste Of Japan
 |  Category: Acts of Kindness, Food + Drink  | 2 Comments

This week I’ve been finishing off the candies that the Japanese tourists gave to me for tourguiding them around Toronto before we all flew to Vancouver on July 5. I’ve never had candies quite like this before, but only the first package has English on it so the second package remains a mystery. One thing I appreciate about the Japanese is the care they take for presentation (eg., sushi), and these little boxes of confection are no exception:

"Please enjoy traditional taste of KYOTO." *wink*

“Please enjoy traditional taste of KYOTO.” *wink* (click on the pic for text notes)

it looks like chalk, has a texture like chalk, and tastes a bit like...

When I first saw the “DO NOT EAT” silica packet included in the plastic packets I wondered if the chalky contents were edible. It looks like chalk, has a texture like chalk, and yes, tastes a bit like chalk. Not terribly so, but make sure you’re not thirsty when you dig in.

26 May 2008 Music Is For Everyone
 |  Category: Acts of Kindness, Music, Videoclips  | Tags: ,  | 2 Comments

“With or Without You” from “U2 Medley” by Doyle Dykes. Sungha Jung is 10 years old at this recording, believe it or not. You might be thinking “hey, anyone can learn one song really well”, but do a YouTube search and you’ll see many other uploaded songs played by Sungha, including this one — Eric Clapton/Sting/et al’s “It’s Probably Me” (one of my favourite songs):

WOW. I hope all this talent Sungha has gets channelled the right way; he has a bright future ahead of him.

–as seen in my Best of YouTube podcast.

02 Feb 2008 Play Me a Song, Mister Guitar Man
 |  Category: Acts of Kindness, Loss  | Leave a Comment

play me a song, mister guitar man

I went to a BFO reunion today. It was, in a word, hard — for all sorts of reasons. I brought my camera and had planned to take more photos, but I only took this one. Aside from a bit of motion blur (James was playing, after all), it didn’t turn out too badly.

It’s been quite the Saturday. I dropped Philip and his gear off at his new place before I went to BFO, and afterwards I drove up to North York to deliver my HP laser printer which I’d sold to someone through Craigslist. We ended up having a very interesting four-hour discussion, most of which was standing up until he offered to cook something for me. An unexpected way to conduct a transaction, but the food was tasty and the conversation was a welcome turn from the gut-wrenching afternoon. (Grieving obviously hasn’t killed my appetite.) Thanks, W.

31 Jan 2008 BEST PRESENT EVER!
 |  Category: Acts of Kindness, Art, Aviation, Gail at Large  | One Comment

BEST PRESENT EVER!

(I ruined my own surprise today, by accident. More on this in a bit.)

Thank you, Siobhan! I’m sorry Canada Post took so long to deliver it, but it is no less appreciated and it’s still a happy surprise!

Illustration by Relentlesstoil.

{ continue reading… }

24 Jan 2008 Mmmmm…. Marzipan!
 |  Category: Acts of Kindness, Food + Drink  | 2 Comments

marzipan is my weakness!

I just got these tonight and look how many I scoffed already! Someone who’s staying with me flew in from Germany tonight, and my request was for marzipan. You’d think it’s been ages since I’ve had any, but it’s been only a couple of months since Iris sent me a batch of marzipan through the mail.

I have to hide the rest of this box in the freezer before I eat it all in one sitting. Out of sight, out of mind and all that. At least, I hope so! (I’ll call it my fortitude indulgence since I have to wake up early to get The Old Bean to the vet.)