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September, 2006

  1. From the Ben Franklin Bridge

    September 24, 2006 by Gail

    from the Ben Franklin Bridge

    Photos from the trip to Philadelphia, PA / Camden, NJ being uploaded slowly but surely. The photoset thus far:

    Philly Visit – Sep 14-16

    There were a couple of things I wanted to do while I was down in Philadelphia, and one of them was to visit the Italian Market where David took some of his shots when he flew down for the only Flickr meetup he was able to attend.

    Philly Meetup – Jun 22, 2005

    Dave’s Logbook: Philly Flickr Meetup

    I remember distinctly the phone conversation we had that night. I was at a Vancouver Flickr Meetup the same night at Trout Lake to watch firespinning, and I sat off to the side of the field listening to David’s excited chatter about how he flew down in the Tri-Pacer and took Gregory for a spin over his neighbourhood (and discovered from the aerial shots that his neighbours had a pool!).

    I was so pleased to hear David’s animated voice, telling me how great the other Flickr people were and how much fun he was having. In hindsight perhaps this was already the cancer taking hold of his body, but I knew he’d been feeling tired and later he said he was reluctant to tell me how fatigued he was, day after day. We hadn’t seen each other in more than three weeks since David returned to Scranton from Vancouver after his birthday weekend, and although we were in touch by phone and email on a daily basis, we were unhappy to be apart in order to satisfy visa requirements. I was hoping David would take more opportunities to join the Philly Flickr people on social outings, to take time off from his commitments and be a part of the photography community the way I was involved with Vandigicam. David’s first Philly Flickr meetup sounded encouraging to me; he needed to have more fun to regain some balance between work and play.

    Italian MarketAddie kindly took me to the Italian Market where she and Seuss and the others walked with David more than a year ago. I found the sign I was looking for, a simple neon outline of a pig, a shot that David took at night and one that I’d commented on. I don’t know why that one stuck in my brain, but I was bent on finding it. I remember David telling me that he wanted to take me to the Italian Market the next time we were in Philadelphia, and I can see why — not just for photographs, but for the market atmosphere that we both enjoyed. When Addie found the Fiorella’s storefront, I felt like I’d completed a mission.

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  2. More Bloodletting for Cancer Research

    September 23, 2006 by Gail

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    Nokia 6682

    It was a bit jarring to be back in the hurly-burly of Toronto after a very peaceful time in rural upstate New York, but I had an appointment at the Princess Margaret Hospital’s cancer research facilities. I mentioned a month ago that I qualified to participate in a study to assess the effects of stress and depression on cancer patients.

    August 21: Offering Myself Up For Cancer Research

    The study looks at hormone levels and they take blood samples, so there are quite a few screening questions and requirements, such as no recent dental work, colds/flu, injuries, alcohol intake, dietary supplements, allergic reactions, strenuous physical exercise, etc. I had to fast for at least 12 hours before the interview — no food or drink, except water.

    There are five groups for this study and I qualified for the control group — “healthy, psychiatrically unaffected” — but it became clear to the research doctor once the blood samples were taken and I began the interview portion that I would be best grouped as a caregiver subject. We discussed this a month ago, but as I am technically not a caregiver I was put into a control group.

    What became painfully obvious during the interview was that although I have never taken anti-depression medication, I really didn’t belong in the “psychiatrically unaffected” control group, either. I may no longer be a caregiver, but even more than nine months later, I’m as psychiatrically affected as ever.

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  3. 1,400 Miles or 2,253 Kilometers Later

    September 23, 2006 by Gail

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    After returning to Toronto for one day after three weeks in Vancouver, I got in my car and drove from Toronto to Scranton, Scranton to Ambler, Ambler to Philadelphia, Philly to Scranton, Scranton to Rhinebeck, then Rhinebeck to Toronto in about six days. On Wednesday alone I drove about a third of that — 2+ hours between Scranton and Rhinebeck, then 7+ hours from Rhinebeck to Toronto. I spoke to Gigi’s Papa when I was east of Syracuse and he didn’t think I would be home before 2am, but I was in our underground parking by 01:10.

    He also thinks I’m crazy for never using cruise control.

    I’ve made three of these ON/NY/PA road trips since the end of May, and this drive home was the easiest. Oddly, though, the trip south last week really dragged. It seemed to take forever to get out of Toronto, and it continued that way until I turned south off Interstate 90 (part of the New York State Thruway) to head south along the very familiar I-81. For some reason, as soon as I see that sign for Binghamton (the last major town before the Pennsylvania border) it feels like I’m on the home stretch to Scranton, but in reality I’m not much further than halfway!

    After my interrogation at the U.S. border on our way to Buffalo a month ago (just thinking about it still spikes my blood pressure), I smartened up and dug out the papers filed away that I had in a binder when I moved to Toronto. I put the binder back together again that contains supporting documents, eg. estate papers, marriage and death certificates, car importation, etc., so that NEXT time a USCIS officer gets “confused” with the details of my story and decides it’s easier to make accusations I’m going to simmer down and hand over that binder. In fact, I really should just make it easier for them and draft a one-page outline of events, with a table of contents.

    Sarcasm never works at the border, so I’m keeping it all here, you see.

    As I was driving to the border, I decided to skip the Lewiston crossing altogether and headed directly for the Rainbow Bridge at Niagara Falls. Which was a good move, I discovered, when I waited less than five minutes to reach a booth and was waved on through after three questions, the last one which was: “Are you the registered owner of this car?” I thought I was going to get the usual “Why do you have PennDOT stickers with Ontario license plates?” — but I didn’t, so I think I’m going to keep using Rainbow Bridge as my regular point of entry now. Maybe the officers have more sense there, or the spray from the falls works like Evian spritzer to make them more relaxed.

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  4. And These Are a Few of My Favourite Things

    September 22, 2006 by Gail

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    Beside my bed: some of David’s aviation books, photos from our wedding, a wooden box that contains his helmet, scarf, and aviator goggles, an urn with 1/3 of Hugh’s ashes, and my favourite photo of David.

    I donated many of the aviation books to David’s Civil Air Patrol squadron, but I kept one box.

    David’s favourite author is Antoine de Saint Exupery. He gave me this hardcopy of his favourite book just after we got engaged.

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  5. Preview: The Tao of Fishing

    September 21, 2006 by Gail

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    Panasonic DMC-FZ1

    I went fishing with Helma on Tuesday afternoon at Lackawanna State Park. Well, I should say she did the fishing while I did the documentary thing… when I put it all together into a set, I’m calling it “The Tao of Fishing According to Helma”.

    Best viewed larger.

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  6. Back in the Batcave

    September 21, 2006 by Gail

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    A shot in a well-known alley in Philadelphia behind Isaiah Zagar‘s Magic Gardens, taken Sunday.

    www.philadelphiasmagicgardens.org/

    It is, as it says above, ridiculously early in the morning. Rolled into Toronto in the wee hours after some extended trips. Been living out of a bag for a while. Not done yet. But I’m glad to be back in the Batcave, if only for access to high-speed internet and my own bed. The email’s been piling up and I’m a little tired of wearing the same six items of clothing.

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  7. Dear David: Month Nine

    September 18, 2006 by Gail

    Dear David,

    I looked for you today. It’s been nine months since I said goodbye, nearly one year since we were married and that means nearly two years since we met. How can I forget? The leaves are beginning to turn and autumn is in the air. It’s our favourite season.

    After a heavy meeting at the lawyer’s, I went down miles and miles of back roads. Eventually I drove by your school and tried to imagine you driving down these same roads with your friends, young and mischievous and optimistic about your future.

    I followed the Susquehanna River for a while, leaving the windows open and listening to a mix of music and the swish of leaves rustling as I drove by. I passed quaint names like Buttermilk Creek and passed up a thousand photo opportunities in favour of driving — just driving. I was tempted to stop at each fire engine red barn, every rusty tractor, vistas of multi-shaded valleys. But I didn’t — I just kept driving. I had to get past the legalese of the morning and the ire over unfair circumstances and think of your life as a journey filled with purpose and roadside attractions and adventure.

    I ended up at Lake Winola and bought a sandwich to eat along the shore and sit in silence. Two fellows with a speedboat were curious when I pulled out the cameras to take photos and offered me a trip out on the lake. I was on Lake Winola all afternoon, enjoying the sunshine and waving at the other boaters and lakeside homeowners. It was a pleasant way to see this area for the first time, a place where you’d spent so much of your teenage years. I didn’t know you then, but if I did, I’d like to think we’d try and hitch a ride on a boat together… and if we were unsuccessful, we’d sit along the shore together and dangle our feet in the water and gossip about our teachers.

    I’ll see you in Rhinebeck, honey. I’m bringing Hugh.

    Tearfully,
    Your Wife

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  8. Philadelphia -> Scranton

    September 17, 2006 by Gail

    I’m going to have to make this quick before I get kicked out of Starbucks…

    Saturday’s photos thus far are here.

    Brunch:

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    Benjamin Franklin Bridge:

    Benjamin Franklin Bridge

    (I’ve got some great photos from earlier today, but I’ll have to upload them later.)

    The drive north through the Pennsylvania countryside from Philadelphia to Scranton:

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    Had a nice visit with David’s boss in Wilkes-Barre, and now I’m off to Helma’s.

    Many, many thanks to Seuss and Miss Plum for a fantastic weekend in Philly! Pics and tales to follow…

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  9. Toronto -> Scranton -> Ambler -> Philadelphia

    September 16, 2006 by Gail

    I was in Toronto for all of one day before I hit the road again on Thursday. I’m too wiped out for anything but a pictorial at this juncture, so here we go:

    Scranton: Helma’s home cooking!

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    … just before I left, I — of the anti-snake persuasion — did peer at some beady reptilian eyes through my lens:

    I don't like snakes, but I got close to this one

    The Lehigh Tunnel along the Pennsylvania Turnpike south from Scranton to Ambler, and a local theatre:

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    Ambler: Laura Kicey’s show opening

    Laura’s first solo photography exhibit is entitled Out of Place and will be running until November. Check it out — it’s in a storefront and all the pieces are viewable 24 hours a day! More pics here.

    Laura Kicey's show

    We went out for dinner afterwards at a Mexican restaurant, then some libations around the corner (the shot on the left was on the way).

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    Kilroy was here

    Philadelphia

    And now I’m in Philly! I’ve taken some pet pictures, but I’ll close the post with this one, of Kilroy’s paws. Kilroy was here, but now he’s having a snooze…

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    September 13, 2006 by Gail

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