Archive for June 6th, 2006

06 Jun 2006 In Memory of David Fielding

fundraising bracelet for the Lung Cancer Alliance fundraising bracelet for the Lung Cancer Alliance
fundraising bracelet for the Lung Cancer Alliance fundraising bracelet for the Lung Cancer Alliance

One week ago, after I’d scattered David’s ashes over Old Rhinebeck Aerodrome, I was given a letter. With permission, I’m going to share that letter.

Dear Gail,

Once again, David Fielding has inspired us to save lives and make a difference.

The pain we each felt at his passing has left many people with a burning desire to do something. We cannot sit by and watch as millions of other people suffer the sting of loss.

With this determination we have designed and organized a fundraiser, which upon its completion will have raised at least $1,200. These funds will be donated, in honor of David’s life, to the Lung Cancer Alliance.

Our fundraiser is centered around the sale of silicone bracelets, which are sky blue, for obvious reasons, in celebration of flight. They are engraved with three phrases, the first of which says “End Lung Cancer”, followed by “Clear Skies” which is simply a comforting reminder to those of us who knew David, the last phrase is on the inside surface, and reads “In Memory of David Fielding” to clearly dedicate each piece to his memory…

As Lieutenant Fielding’s wife, our love and loyalty to him is directly given to you as well. Our friendship and support continues with you.

Sincerely, on behalf of:

Eric Cannon
Aleya Van Doren
Alex Tullo
Alicia Lanphear

Each bracelet is in a plastic envelope, along with a double-sided card:

David Lee Fielding
May 30, 1967 – December 18, 2005

David Fielding had a passion for flight, which he shared with many. One of the many ways he did this was by volunteering in the Civil Air Patrol, where he was able to reach the lives of hundreds of teenagers. To a few of these he became a mentor, and a close friend.

At the young age of 38, David Fielding, a non-smoker, was diagnosed with an aggressive case of small cell lung cancer. This tragedy took his friends and family by surprise and took his life in just over 4 months.

There are two types of lung cancer, small cell and non-small cell lung cancer (NSCLC). Small cell lung cancer is rare and represents only 15-20% of lung cancer cases, 98% of which are attributed to smoking. This form of lung cancer is aggressive and spreads much faster than NSCLC to the lymph nodes and other organs.

David’s courage during his battle with cancer and the pain of losing him has inspired us to fight this disease.

Thank you for joining the battle.

* * * * *

Join the Fight to End Lung Cancer

Lung Cancer Alliance is the only national organization dedicated exclusively to lung cancer patient advocacy and support.

Lung cancer is the leading cancer killer with a mere 15% survival rate.

  • 35-40% of new lung cancer cases are smokers.
  • 50% of new lung cancer cases are former smokers.
  • 10-15% of new lung cancer cases are non-smokers.

In 2005, The Centers for Disease Control earmarked $204 million for breast and cervical cancer, $14 million for prostate cancer, and $14.6 million for colon cancer. The 2005 budget included $0 for lung cancer research.

For more information visit www.lungcanceralliance.org.

The group of four (Alicia, Alex, Aleya, and Eric — all former cadets of David’s) are putting together a website to promote their fundraiser, but it isn’t ready yet. I brought a bag of bracelets back with me and sold most of them on the trip back to Toronto. I will be getting more to sell in Canada, and the others will sell the rest in the U.S. If you would like to buy a bracelet, they sell for $5 each ($5.50 Cdn?). I can mail them out, as well. I’ll post the link to the fundraising website when it’s ready. In the meantime, please contact me if you’d like more info: gail [at] gailatlarge.com.

I have added another section to the Links page, called “In Memory of David Fielding”. I will be expanding this section in the coming days.

06 Jun 2006 Not From Around These Parts?
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grilled tentacle
the latest victim of foodies

A grilled octopus tentacle from Ouzeri Greek restaurant on the Danforth in Toronto, in case you were wondering. Some friends from Vancouver are in town, arrived Sunday, hence the lack of posting. I can’t believe it was one year ago we were celebrating George’s birthday (which is three days before David’s) at a Greek restaurant in Richmond.

David’s Weekend in Vancouver: Happy Birthday George!
My Terrific Canadian Mini-Holiday, Chapter 1

And, just like this grilled tentacle shipped from saltier waters in some distant location, here we all were again — but in Toronto. But I can’t express how good it feels to be with my friends after months of phone calls and e-mails. Since Rachael arrived in Toronto on May 25, I’ve had friends from Vancouver actually here, who I can talk to without the aid of an electronic device, and it makes all the difference in the world to me.

06 Jun 2006 David with Stanley Segalla
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David with Stanley Segalla

Pentax K-1000
September 4, 2005

I found the one picture I took of David with Stanley “The Flying Farmer” Segalla, and scanned it. Mr. Segalla is 80 or 81 years old and still stunt flying in his Piper Cub for Old Rhinebeck Aerodrome. He was kind enough to fly out from Connecticut on May 30 so I could scatter David’s ashes over the Aerodrome on his birthday. I couldn’t have done it without Mr. Segalla, because with the weather forecast for thunderstorms, no pilot would commit to flying the Aerodrome’s 1929 biplane on that day. I had no pilot and no plane until Mr. Segalla offered to do it at the 11th hour, after shuffling around his schedule.

David mentioned Mr. Segalla in his write-up of that day, which turned out to be his last visit to the Aerodrome:

http://aviatordave.blogspot.com/2005/09/best-medicine.html

I led Gail around the old tin hangars and rattled off chapter and verse on each old plane and bit of machinery. She found an endless variety of things to photograph, from the old planes to the many cars and motorbikes, old engines, and the beautiful countryside around the museum. A friendly old gentleman in a flightsuit invited us to come into one hangar to examine the partially-completed “Spirit of St. Louis” replica; I noticed his nametag, Stanley Segalla – one of the airshow pilots, famous as the “Flying Farmer”!

I just finished writing letters and printing photos for the people at Old Rhinebeck Aerodrome, to thank them for making it all happen.