A memorial service is planned for Wednesday evening, December 28, at Tripp House in Scranton, Pennsylvania, where David and I had originally planned to marry on October 1. Friends will have the opportunity to share stories and memories during the program.
The details are as follows:

Wednesday, December 28
Program: 7-9 pm
(light fare will be served 9-10 pm)
Tripp House
1011 N Main Ave
Scranton, Pennsylvania
570-961-3317
Google map and directions
More photos
On Tuesday, May 30, 2006, I will be taking David’s ashes to Old Rhinebeck Aerodrome in upstate New York. It’s David’s favourite place in the world, a working museum of antique airplanes. I’ve made arrangements to scatter his ashes from the 1929 New Standard biplane over the Aerodrome and Hudson River on what would’ve been his 39th birthday. All who wish to gather at Old Rhinebeck Aerodrome for this occasion are welcome. More details will be announced closer to the date.
I’m thankful I was able to visit Old Rhinebeck Aerodrome with David on September 4 and fly with him in the biplane. I told him we would do it again, and this way, we can. David spoke of the sky as his “happy place”; I will release him to a joyful firmament.
The videoclip I recorded of our biplane ride in September:

Tuesday, 20 December 2005
Gail, I wish I could be there and say goodbye to him. I wish also I could hug you and give you strengh but I can’t…
I’m here for you though, whenever you need a friend. And I truly hope you will visit us in Lisbon as soon as you can. It’s a peacefull place here.
love
greg
Tuesday, 20 December 2005
That sounds a perfectly wonderful tribute and service for a perfectly wonderful man. I would love to be there with you to offer support, but know that I am with you in spirit and here whenever you need me.
Your amazing friendship, love and support of David is a testement to all that is good in the world. You are truly wonderful person and I wish you all the strength at this time.
Tuesday, 20 December 2005
My wish for you is that you can draw strength from his mother and others who loved him as well. I will pray that you are able to grieve and heal together. Remember that you are not alone in your loss, and be careful not to lose the pieces of him that are still alive. My thoughts are with you during this difficult time.
Tuesday, 20 December 2005
That sounds just beautiful and wonderful, Gail. Both tributes are a perfect way to celebrate David’s life and your love.
Tuesday, 20 December 2005
Gail,
It sounds like a lovely idea for a send off to scatter his ashes in such a way. you’re a star. just keep remembering the good times!
take care and, as usual, if you ever need to chat let me know,
gerald
Tuesday, 20 December 2005
May 30. He would have liked that.
Tuesday, 20 December 2005
How wonderfully fitting. May your memories keep you soaring always.
Kimberly
Tuesday, 20 December 2005
Gail,that’s a good way to cherish his memories and wishes.We may not be physically present but you are well kept in our daily prayers.I know you are a very organized,knowledgeable and responsible person .We are always proud of you.Keep up the good works,life must go on and keep movin’ on forward.Take care and our love always.
Tuesday, 20 December 2005
I’m going to do my very best to be there to do this with you. I’ll start saving now.
Tuesday, 20 December 2005
I wish we could make it there Gail. I know David would be pleased at such a fitting tribute! Flying was such a love of his, as were you. I will be thinking of him and writing about him for awhile. Thinking good thoughts towards you…
Wednesday, 21 December 2005
Gail,
I’ll be there in heart and thoughts.
You have my support and best wishes.
Michel
Thursday, 22 December 2005
I’m a bloggy friend of Socar’s….
I am moved to tears. It sounds like he lived and died with class. He’s flying free now, just out of our sight.